A explosão do amor
No dia dos namorados “o amor está no ar”. Desejos pulam logo ao amanhecer e a expectativa de encontrar o cônjuge para presenteá-lo com a certeza de que será retribuído.
Ter um dia exclusivo só para namorados parece um exagero ou mais um golpe do marketing de consumo. Mas na verdade é uma exclusividade que carrega muita importância, pois o vínculo amoroso de toda grande história de amor conjugal tem início no namoro.
Aquela explosão de amor que fixa no inconsciente de todo ser humano, a ponto de muitos casais viverem das lembranças: – “Na época que namorávamos que era bom…”-, Eco de saudade que todo casal já casado deixa manifestar.
O namoro reserva algumas coisas muito gostosas, inerentes à essência do afeto humano, como: a descoberta do outro, transformação das pessoas em humanas; o desejo de ver e sentir; a paixão que causa reações fisiológicas da ponta do cabelo até às unhas dos dedões dos pés; a sensação de ser desejado; troca de carinho e carícias; o romantismo.
O namoro é um período tão forte na vida de um casal, que dependendo da sua intensidade e vitalidade, preserva o casal enamorado para toda a vida conjugal. Namoro é como alicerce de uma casa e, se compacto e bem estruturado, sustenta uma grande construção que no decorrer dos anos superarão ventos e tempestades.
Por tudo isto, o namoro vale mais do que ficar. O ficar pode ser o preâmbulo para o namoro. Se a cada beijo transmitimos e recebemos aproximadamente 400 bactérias, o ficar é um risco bacteriano sem precedentes, pois além de contaminada, a pessoa não terá o outro na sua essência. Já no namoro, o risco bacteriano pelo menos tem a recompensa de outras trocas mais profundas.
No namoro, podemos exercer nossa capacidade de escolha, por isso aos casais jovens é melhor o namoro com tempo longo; e aos casais adultos, o tempo de namoro vai depender da intensidade do vínculo e da maturidade. Assim, vemos pessoas de 40 anos se conhecendo, apaixonando e casando em curto período de tempo, sem correr muito o risco de errar.
Mas o namoro reserva alguns cuidados que se não observados pode ser um momento de camuflagem. Por isso que namoro é tempo para conhecer o outro. É comum analisarmos no processo psicoterapêutico pessoas que estão em crise conjugal após anos de casados, e na reconstituição da história conjugal descobre-se que o fogo da paixão, que cega para a percepção dos detalhes, impediu de ver a realidade do outro, na época do namoro.
Como acontece com mulheres que sofrem nas mãos de alcoólatras e dizem ter certeza que o marido tornou-se alcoólatra depois de casado. Ao recuperar as cenas, vamos perceber que em alguns momentos do namoro o rapaz bebia todas, mas esporadicamente, em algumas situações até tinha que ser carregado no colo. Lá já tinha um alcoólatra, onde a paixão da namorada não permitiu enxergar.
É comum também, mulheres que após o casamento tornam-se frias sexualmente e muito apegadas aos filhos e a própria família de origem, onde o namorado movido pela paixão não conseguia enxergar o quanto ela era dependente dos pais, – “Ela até tinha medo de barata, ficava branca ao ver uma …” . Ele não percebia que este medo já era sintoma de insegurança. Assim, se no namoro os casais tiverem a coragem de ver as coisas do outro como elas realmente são, o namoro poderá ser um excelente trampolim para uma vida conjugal bem estabelecida. Mas é melhor ficar sem marido ou esposa quando se observa que o namoro não anda, tem muito conflito e causa muita angústia. Imagine depois de casados? É melhor ficar só do que mal acompanhado!
“O amor é fogo que arde sem se ver…”, de tão bom que é este amor vivenciado no namoro na forma de uma explosão de paixão vale a pena para todos os casais cultivar o dia dos namorados com muita vitalidade, pois o que é bom não pode ficar só na lembrança, tem que ser vivenciado a cada dia. Os casais que escolheram estar eternamente enamorados deverão ter no dia 12 de junho motivos de sobra para comemorar. E para quem tem um grande amor que pode enamorar-se, feliz dia dos namorados. Melhor mesmo é que todos os dias seja dia de se namorar.
*Gerson Abarca é Psicólogo psicoterapeuta graduado pela UNESP/SP – 1990. Escritor pela Ed. Paulus. Atua na cidade de Vitória em psicoterapia de base psicanalítica para crianças adolescentes e adultos. Mentor do site: abarcapsicologo.com.br. Mais informações no telefone (27) 99992-0428 e no endereço: Rua Eugênio Neto, 488 – Ed. Praia Office – Sala 1001, Praia do Canto ( Ao lado da Igreja Sta Rita).
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